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The Heartbreaking Reality of Parental Alienation: A Personal Journey Through the Depths of Abuse

As a mother who has endured various forms of abuse, ranging from emotional and physical to legal and financial, I can confidently say that nothing compares to the pain inflicted by parental alienation. Parental alienation has torn apart my family, leaving me estranged from two of my beloved children since 2012. This blog aims to shed light on the insidious nature of parental alienation, drawing from personal experience and the countless stories shared with me by other parents who have faced similar heart-wrenching struggles.


Understanding Parental Alienation: Parental alienation occurs when one parent manipulates a child to distance themselves from the other parent, typically in the context of divorce or separation. This deliberate and destructive behavior is rooted in a desire for power and control, often leading to long-term emotional and psychological consequences for the targeted parent and, most tragically, the children involved.


Common Alienating Behaviors:

  1. Denigration and Demeaning Comments:

  • Abusive parents often engage in a systematic campaign to undermine the targeted parent's reputation. This can involve making derogatory remarks about the parent's character, abilities, or lifestyle, creating a negative narrative that influences the child's perception.

  1. Interference with Communication:

  • Alienating parents may actively prevent or restrict communication between the targeted parent and the child. This can include withholding phone calls, intercepting messages, or creating obstacles that hinder a healthy parent-child relationship.

  1. False Allegations and Legal Maneuvering:

  • Alienators may resort to false accusations, such as claims of abuse or neglect, to gain an advantage in legal proceedings. This not only tarnishes the targeted parent's reputation but also contributes to a biased legal environment that can perpetuate the cycle of alienation.

  1. Isolation and Social Alienation:

  • Alienating parents work to isolate the child from the extended family, friends, and support networks of the targeted parent. By severing these connections, they create an environment where the child becomes emotionally dependent on the alienating parent.


Parental alienation is a deeply destructive form of abuse, leaving scars that extend far beyond the immediate family dynamic. It is essential for society, legal professionals, and mental health practitioners to recognize and address the signs of parental alienation, providing support and intervention to protect the well-being of children and targeted parents alike. By understanding the common alienating behaviors and their consequences, we can work towards creating a more compassionate and informed approach to addressing this pervasive issue.

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